Many of my clients started by telling me that they “just weren’t ready at this time.” Just about all of their concerns were centered around that emotion that plagues so many of us: FEAR. To put it frankly, fear stinks. It robs us of everything if we allow it to control us. It robs us of opportunities because we’re too afraid to fail, relationships because we don’t want to get hurt, and it robs us of our destiny because we’re afraid of change. Yes, it’s an emotion and at times is a natural response to a circumstance, but we have to choose whether or not to allow it to dictate and limit our life. Fear of rejection (my book won’t be a success and people won’t read it), fear of failure (I don’t want to mess up), and fear of the unknown (how the heck am I going to do this) are all real fears that my writers had in the beginning.
But what if we looked at fear using this acronym:
Years ago someone shared that acronym with me and it changed my perspective. How would your life change if you approached fear this way instead of allowing it to be the driving force in your life?
Who Are You to Keep Your Story to Yourself?
Lots of things can deter us from telling our story, but like I said earlier I believe the main one is fear. What will people think? What if they don’t like it? What if they don’t like me? What if I’m criticized? What if I’m ridiculed?
You don’t have to try to think of the “what ifs”; they attack you without effort. It’s scary to put yourself out there for all the world to see. Maybe you can turn these fearful “what ifs” into something positive: What if you change someone’s life? What if you save someone’s life? What if you help someone who is without hope? What if your pain is the path to another person’s healing? What if writing your book and laying it all out there actually helps to heal you?
You’re the only one who has your story. You’re the only one who can write it. And you can start now!
If you or someone you know has always wanted to write a book, reach out to us, and we can help make it happen!